Don Juan: the Way Women See Him
As a rule, women say that they despise ladies' men. They state that they can easily see Casanovas through and declare in a very loud and clear way that they would never waste their precious time on a womanizer. This, indeed, sounds very convincing and we may even believe these passionate speeches till we see the situation form a different angle – i.e. in practice.
And in practice a woman finds herself swept off her feet so skillfully and swiftly that she hardly manages to think sensibly before she says yes to everything a womanizer may trick her into.
Of course, when it comes to communicating with a charmer, a woman scarcely resists his wicked ways to drag her in his cobweb of blissful pleasure and love which eventually turns into a web of lies and a pile of regrets.
The thing is, a womanizer is usually characterized by features which are very appreciated by women in a man such as great looks, perfect style, good manners, brilliant brain (or just sweet witty ways), self-confidence, gallantness, gentleness, flexibility, sensual experience, irresistible charm and many other traits which cannot be found in one man as a rule.
That is why irrespective of a woman's skeptical (theoretical) attitude to a womanizer, her bitter statements in the address of this type of men and her vows prompting her ironness and coldness in case she meets one, practice usually proves the opposite – she falls under his charm without a word or movement to show she doesn't want to be played or heartbroken – it's all good as long as he is with her 27/7.